While talking to a coworker today, he was telling us about a date he went last night. It reminded me of one I went to couple of months ago. So I asked him, did you pay for your date, and he said he always does on the first date, But it would be nice if the Lady offers, not that he would accept.......

After talking just once on the phone we decided to meet. Actually it wasn't a bad Idea, I thought, after all we don't have to tell our whole life story over the phone.

We could meet and then go from there. Since he wasn't from around here, where I live, I chose the restaurant. Its a new and very nice restaurant.
We met and he wasn't bad looking and he seemed nice. But It all stopped there. While bad mouthing his Ex during the dinner, he screamed at the waitress, because she wanted to make sure we have everything. Well she over did it and kept coming to our table.
I was listening to him and found out that money is a big concern to him. The way he was talking about his ex and how he left her in his country, so he wont pay her anything. I knew that he wont sleep that night if he paid for dinner.
So after we had Dinner I offered, let me pay for my share. He accepted like a blink of an eye.
Well, he was generous enough to pay for the Tip.
So when He called for second date, my answer was NO. It wasn't because I had to pay for my dinner, I wouldn't mind if the company was good. But I didn't even enjoy our whole conversation.
Is it too much to expect the guy to pay for the first date? Coming from different culture, In my country ladies never pay for dinner date. Sharing is Ok with me, But after getting to know each other better. Well maybe its just me.....

Standing for what you believe in,
Regardless of the odds against you,
and pressure that tears at your resistance,
...means courage
Stopping at nothing,
And doing what's in your heart,
You know is right,
...means determination
Keeping a smile on your face,
When inside you feel like dying,
For the sake of supporting others,
...means strength
Helping a friend in need,
No matter the time or effort,
To the best of your ability,
...means loyalty
Doing more than is expected,
To make another's life more bearable,
Without uttering a single complaint,
...means compassion
Giving more than you have,
And expecting nothingBut nothing in return,
..means everything

Last week, it was my hair, tonight was my blog. I need a change and I have been thinking about changing the colors again. Well thats me I have changed it a lot of times, and I am sure it wont be the last time I am doing it. Here is the other change I made. I am working on links and more cool sites to add. Time to go to bed. Till tomorrow.....

It was almost time for school to dismiss and a mother noticed it looked like rain.
So she drove toward school to pick up her eight-year-old daughter.
She turned down the street to see her daughter running toward her down the sidewalk.
A lightning bolt flashed and the little girl looked up towards the sky,
smiled and then began running toward her mother's van.
Another lightning bolt flashed and again the little girl looked towards the sky,
smiled and resumed running.
This happened several more times until the little girl finally arrived at where her mother was parked. Her mom immediately inquired as to the strange behavior.
"Why did you keep stopping and smiling at the sky?" she asked her daughter.
"I had to, Mommy.
God was taking my picture."

I just got a comment regarding above subject, that I found interesting, who is a better liar; Last comment....

Cancer
June 22 - July 22

Turn ons
Try to adapt yourself with the chan ging moods of the Cancer. At one moment they may be laughing and enjoying and in another moment they may cry or sulk. You may have to adjust with the moody and sensitive Cancer. They are like the tides in the ocean always fluctuating. Cancer people love food so if you know how to cook and can be poetic and romantic (added Bonus) then you know the way to their heart.
Turn offs
Cancerians are very sensitive people and can get easily hurt. So do not play with t heir emotions and sentiments. They are like tides that can take you with it. They form emotional bonds with even inanimate things too so do not ask them to discard old caps or souvenirs these things hold special meaning to them. You have to realize that the crabs have soft heart and are vulnerable. Do not contradict their tested line of thought and action it would only lead to confusion