At June 17, 2006 3:26 AM, Anonymous
At June 17, 2006 7:12 PM, Anonymous
At June 19, 2006 9:07 PM, Anonymous
Sara jan,
They might be horrible, but they try their best and when they are busted, they act like they didnt lie, and the truth that you just found out is a LIE...
Parisa jaan,
I understand you AND it is NOT OK. What is the point of being friends with someone whose integrity you constantly doubt? I see absolutely none.
It is all about confidence, the first thing we have to ask ourselves is: whom am I lying to? Are we trying to mislead our partner, friends, child/children, mother or father or anybody we claim that we care for?
People with lying tendency don’t pay attention to the conversation and they don’t remember what they said earlier.
1- I said men love to lie but they are absolutely horrible at it, because we (women) making all the pieces fit together and we don’t simply buy their lies. Normal Men lie often, but most times these are harmless lies that are said to protect their ego more than anything and they are NOT Professional.
Women rarely lie, but when they do, it's a story so good that it could be the basis for 100 episodes of a soap opera. Women do it like professionals; men do it with amateurish results.
Normal Women hate lying; they do it only out of necessity. Normal Men love it; it gives them validation to their illusions of grandeur.
2-Professional Compulsive pathological Liar is manipulating and lie or twist the truth, they have a head the size of a small planet and the ego to match.
I think they lie for two reasons: the first is because it's a control game, and I also think that male with( PCPL )especially lie to women, it's like revisiting their control freak mother and being able to pull one over on her.
Once a PCP liar, always a PCP liar, in my opinion. This comes so naturally to them, just as honesty does to us.
According to DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) statistics: it is estimated that about 1% of the population suffers from narcissistic personality disorder, most narcissists (50-75%) are men, and narcissistic personality disorder is often diagnosed with other mental health disorders, reckless behaviors with pathological lying disorder and more..
Professional Compulsive pathological Liar projects all time, they think all men or women are lying too, they try to justify their sick act by saying: Its not that we(men) are horrible at it, we just used it for everything.>>> ***Not that makes it OK***, but the fact of matter is >>>>we have too much in our head to worry about and we just forget how we covered our last lie.<<<<<<
Well, they are people who cannot accept their true selves, constructing instead a fixed mask that hides emotional numbness-an inability to feel and suffer from a chronically fragile low self-esteem.
The PCP Liar would lie about big things, small things, and immediately verifiable things. I think it is all a game to them, to see how much they could get away with. When caught in a lie there would be another explanation (also inevitably a lie). I think the lies are a turn on for them.
Happy lies! Mr. Gomnaam
P.S: Most people lie for the sake of convenience but keep in mind that the truth is always the best policy, even though the pure and simple truth is rarely pure and never simple, according to Oscar Wilde.
Sara
At June 20, 2006 2:28 PM, Anonymous
WOW!
You just had to take a simple joke way out of proportion.
And you should come of your high horse :"Once a PCP liar, always a PCP liar, in my opinion. This comes so naturally to them, just as honesty does to us."
That is a typical of a SELF Assured one!
But inaccordance with your own statement
"According to DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) statistics: it is estimated that about 1% of the population suffers from narcissistic personality disorder, most narcissists (50-75%) are men" , well who are the other 25-50% of the DSM?
The statement was made merely as a joke with some truth in it that men do lie almost about everything. You can analysis every word in my statment/joke but you will be wrong
on your conclusion. Sometime you just read a joke as a joke nothing more.
Happy Honesty To you !
Mr. Gomnaam
p.s. : I dont belive Ladies can handle the truth!
Even a simple one!
Just messing with Sara!
LOL,
Have a good day (I mean it!)
Are you having a good time parisa?LOL